Gay Men Dating Tips
At times, the dating world can be a cruel and unrelenting place to get immersed in, whether you are a heterosexual or a homosexual one. If straight people have their own dating issues, so do gay men.
The thing with the singles scene and the gay man is that even gay men put a lot of premium on the looks department. Go to an internet personals website that caters to the homosexual community and observe for a while. You will find that many guys would not even be willing to chat with you if your profile does not meet their definition of a hottie.
It is already a challenge to live openly as a gay person, does a gay man have to live with the difficulties of finding someone to date in addition to these struggles? It is just too much.
Anyhow, if you are a man struggling to find other male friends, here are four effective ways to make things turn around for you.
- Be proud of yourself. No one likes gloomy, self-conscious gays who do not have any pride in themselves. You should not wear failure like a body suit. That is so unattractive and only makes you fail at your dating forays even more. Instead, keep your chin up and keep hoping for the best. Find something to be proud of yourself and, more importantly, be proud of yourself, that you are a homosexual man. Tell yourself that you are someone great to be with and worthy to become someone's partner for life. Believe in that and other people will believe in you too.
- Take care of yourself. If prospective dates reject you because they do not find you attractive, then make yourself attractive. Think of it as taking care of yourself through loving yourself. Do what you can like having a new haircut, do a makeover, update your wardrobe, and go on a diet and exercise regimen. Remember that charity begins at home: you have to love yourself first before others start loving you.
- Improve on your personality. Do you have some personality traits that people find irritating, such as lack of self-confidence, or brashness, or insensitivity towards the concern of others? More than focusing on what you perceive as your physical flaws, maybe you should exert more effort on making yourself a better person from the inside out. After all, even the most attractive person would fail at keeping relationships if he is nothing more than a self absorbed and small minded man.
- Live your life to the fullest. Life is too short to waste on self-pity and self-loathing. Enjoy your life and live it to the fullest of your potential. If you are having fun with your life, the people around you will love having you around, and love will come afterwards.
Posted at 3:28 PM on Dec 26, 2008 By 5StarDating.com
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